Getting through 2019 with three words

It’s been very hard for me to try and write this blog without mentioning just how hard and terrifying being a woman in South Africa has been this year. The only time I fear sleeping is when I’m on a flight, I have serious height phobia so for as many hours as I am onContinue reading “Getting through 2019 with three words”

Impossibility of finding a life partner

I’ve often been told that nothing is impossible in life but for me that’s a “Big Lie”. If you think you’re going to find your ideal man “in this Era my Sistra” think carefully… “TOFEYAGWA = Never“. Ask me, “Miss Know It All” This was my list before I realized there is no such thingContinue reading “Impossibility of finding a life partner”

Grasping at straws

Where do I even begin? I guess the beginning is always a good start (pun intended). I met my “potential” ex-husband in 2006, it wasn’t love at first sight, it was rather “connection or curiosity at first sight”. When I met him, there was still a lot of controversy around xenophobia and the attacks, thereContinue reading “Grasping at straws”

Getting over a broken heart

There’s this book I coincidentally started reading about two weeks prior to my break-up called “Eat.Pray.Love”. Basically, it’s about a woman who travels around the world after being divorced in search of enlightenment. Needless to say this book came at such a pivotal moment in my life, it’s like God was sending me a sign fromContinue reading “Getting over a broken heart”